Experiences are powerful regardless of whether they are negative or positive. You learn from the positive as well as the negative. The biggest challenge I have had in the Middle East has not been the Middle East. You would think that I would have a challenge with the culture, the language or the customs. Or that maybe I would be bothered by the fact that you have to wear long sleeves and pants in 100 degree weather. The surprising fact is that my biggest obstacle in the Middle East is people and not people from the Middle East.
All of the Middle Eastern people have been absolutely loving. They are so caring and endearing. One of my co-workers brought me an Egyptian jewelry box and candelabra because I've been ranting about wanting to go to Egypt. My issue has been with non-middle Eastern people. There are so many people who bring their sheltered views and attitudes to a new place.
I think the thing I have struggled with most in Qatar is having faith in humanity. Having faith that people will be understanding, genuine, non-judgemental. Faith that people will respect and honor one another for no other reason than that we are all people. Having faith that there are people who will accept you as you are. Having faith that somehow, one day, people's minds will be opened and their eyes will see something new. That people will learn to see outside of themselves.
I have enjoyed Qatar but I think that what's missing for me, it is too Western. There isn't anything unique about it. Its like living in a Western country. Over 80% of the population are foreigners, most from western countries. I never thought I would say this but its not different enough. Most cities have history, a unique culture, unique customs. The muslim culture is very unique and I have learned so much from it. On the same hand, in this particular country it doesn't define it. I enjoy it here but I can't help but to wonder whats next in my journey.
All of the Middle Eastern people have been absolutely loving. They are so caring and endearing. One of my co-workers brought me an Egyptian jewelry box and candelabra because I've been ranting about wanting to go to Egypt. My issue has been with non-middle Eastern people. There are so many people who bring their sheltered views and attitudes to a new place.
I think the thing I have struggled with most in Qatar is having faith in humanity. Having faith that people will be understanding, genuine, non-judgemental. Faith that people will respect and honor one another for no other reason than that we are all people. Having faith that there are people who will accept you as you are. Having faith that somehow, one day, people's minds will be opened and their eyes will see something new. That people will learn to see outside of themselves.
I have enjoyed Qatar but I think that what's missing for me, it is too Western. There isn't anything unique about it. Its like living in a Western country. Over 80% of the population are foreigners, most from western countries. I never thought I would say this but its not different enough. Most cities have history, a unique culture, unique customs. The muslim culture is very unique and I have learned so much from it. On the same hand, in this particular country it doesn't define it. I enjoy it here but I can't help but to wonder whats next in my journey.
Wow now that was a very powerful story. I think some people are afraid of change so its 'easier' to be judgemental and not understanding than to adapt to something different. People whine at change so much and someone such as yourself always gets a big ? overhead. I say to you, always be you and love you and love were you came from but most importantly embrace newness and keep that that open-mind.
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